One Frustrated Momma- The Reason For This Blog

A couple months ago, my youngest child, Julian, was diagnosed with autism. This diagnosis didn’t come as a shock… We were pretty much expecting it.

Julian and his twin brother, Dominic, decided to make their grand entrance into this world bit too early. There was no particular reason for for this untimely arrival. My guess is that they heard all the excitement and commotion being made by their older brothers and sister. (Yes you counted correctly. 5 kids.) But that’s not the point I was trying to make.

Back to the reason for this blog…

Since Julian’s diagnosis, I’ve become increasingly frustrated. I’m frustrated that when Julian’s doctor told me he had autism, he gave me a pamphlet and TRIED to send me on my way. (He was not succesful.) I’m frustrated by the numerous road blocks I face on a daily basis trying to get him the proper care.

I’m frustrated by my own false hope that Julian would some how “grow out” of his various delays. I’m frustrated that facebook has directed every autism-related advertisement to my news feed, as if that’s all I’m interested in anymore. And if, for some odd reason, I don’t want to wear a puzzle bracelet around my wrist, or display to the world on my shirt that my son has this one particular condition, I am somehow doing something wrong.

The list of frustrations goes on.

So instead of becoming angry, bitter, and depressed, I decided to start this blog… a place I can vent, and maybe even reach others who are frustrated for various reasons.

This blog will NOT be politically correct. And it will NOT be strictly about autism. It WILL be about peoplism, momism, wifism, daughterism, friendism, and various other human conditions.

Enjoy!

 

39 Replies to “One Frustrated Momma- The Reason For This Blog”

  1. I hadn’t heard about the “official ” diagnosis. I think this blog is a great idea for both you and others. You all are in my thoughts and prayers.

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  2. One of my Grandsons is autistic. With a lot of hard work (by my daughter) he has improved tremendously over the past 18 years. I wish you all the best; never say never; you never know what determination and a bit of elbow grease can attain. 🙂

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  3. I’m glad to see there won’t be a filter here. Too many people have one. I look forward to seeing how your journey with autism plays out. It’s a subject that I’ve been interested in since I saw the movie Son-Shine when I was little.
    I also look forward to seeing that it won’t be your only journey.

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  4. thank you for sharing your story with us, yes the frustration is real, i have an older sibling who suffers fron the same conditon. She’s well into her adult life and has to have a full time care giver as our country has very limited programs in place i only know of the Autism Society which only came on board a fews years ago. i look forward to reading your blogs.

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