Welcome To Not an Autism Mom!

Meghan Ashburn is a former elementary school teacher living in Virginia Beach. She’s passionate about helping families, boosting autistic voices, and creating a better world for our children.

This type of change doesn’t come easily. It takes learning and listening. It takes planning and intent. It takes cooperation and collaboration.

Come change the world with me…

The Incubator


That Au-Some Incubator is a group for people who want to make this world a better, more inclusive place. It’s a group for learning, talking, sharing, brainstorming, and doing! Join us as we change the world!

“This has been invaluable to me as I grow professionally and as a parent!”

~Unprofessional Development Member
The Book Club


Join over 3000 other book clubbers from around the world who have one common goal: To learn about autism and neurodiversity from autistic authors and their allies! We do some pretty cool interviews in there as well!

“I’ve been looking for resources for so long. I’m happy I finally found them!”

~Book Club Member


A channel with epic interviews from the book club. Watch them or listen to them like a podcast. Special guests include Kieran Rose, Steve Silberman, Mikhaela Ackerman, Diego and Edlyn Peña, Dr. Barry Prizant, and so many more!

“These interviews have been so valuable in my learning journey.”

~Book Club Member

Why be professional when you can get real?”